God’s Timing & Extending Grace to Yourself

God’s Timing & Extending Grace to Yourself

The start of a new season can be a time filled with pressure to become the best version of yourself. The resolutions you made at the beginning of last year (or the top of this year) either happened or did not. Whether you accomplished all of your goals or didn’t quite meet them, feeling constant pressure to change and improve can be overwhelming. You have to give yourself grace and remember to trust God’s timing. Don’t be too hard on yourself.

Diamonds form under pressure—we’ve heard this fact our entire lives. However, just because we didn’t accomplish our full to-do list this year doesn’t mean that we are anything less than a diamond. In God’s timing, we will all flourish into the diamonds He’s calling us to be. It’s essential that we wait patiently on Him and His timing to shape and mold us individually into the diamond He needs us to be.

“Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails” (Proverbs 19:21). 

We can do amazing things that are not essentially God’s things.

So rest knowing that just because you didn’t check all the boxes doesn’t mean you’re a failure. Maybe some of those things weren’t in proper alignment. You must have faith that the things you thought you needed may not have been right for you at that moment. God has a plan, and oftentimes, we don’t understand it at first. 

I encourage you to take every goal and plan you have before the throne and ask God to order your steps. Ask Him to empty you and fill you with Him. He must increase, but we must decrease.

Being filled with God’s grace will help guide you on your path. Be comfortable submitting your to-do list to Him, but also be comfortable changing it if that’s not His will. Trust that He knows what you need and be open to listening to His calling. Be patient waiting on Him… sometimes His timing is not ours! 

Embrace the fresh start that is NOW. Hold God close and trust in His plan. 

 

 

Potato Soup Recipe

Potato Soup Recipe

Ingredients

  • 6 strips (uncooked) bacon, cut into small pieces
  • 3 tablespoons garlic and herb butter
  • 1 medium yellow onion, chopped
  • 3 large garlic cloves, minced
  • ⅓ cup all-purpose flour
  • 2 ½ lbs gold potatoes peeled and diced into pieces no larger than 1”
  • 4 cups chicken broth
  • 2 cups milk
  • ⅔ cup heavy whipping cream
  • 1 ½ teaspoon salt
  • 1 teaspoon ground pepper
  • ¼ teaspoon chili powder
  • 1 teaspoon of onion powder
  • 1 teaspoon garlic powder
  • ½ teaspoon cumin
  • ⅔ cup sour cream
  • Shredded cheddar cheese, chives, and additional sour cream and bacon for topping (optional)

Prep and Cooking Instructions:

Step 1

Dice and place bacon pieces in a large Dutch Oven pot over medium heat and cook until bacon is crisp and browned.

Step 2

Remove bacon pieces and set aside, leaving the bacon grease in the pot.

Step 3

Add butter and chopped onion, garlic, celery, and parsley to a pot, cooking over medium heat until tender.

Step 4

Sprinkle the flour over the ingredients in the pot and stir until smooth (I use a whisk).

Step 5

Add diced potatoes to the pot along with chicken broth, milk, heavy cream, salt, pepper, garlic powder, cumin, onion powder, and chili powder. Stir well.

Step 6

Bring to a boil and cook until potatoes are tender.

Step 7

Reduce heat to simmer and smash potatoes until desired texture.

Step 8 

Add sour cream and half of the bacon pieces. Stir well. Allow soup to simmer for 15 minutes before serving.

Step 9

Top with additional sour cream, bacon, cheddar cheese, or chives.

Chicken Noodle Soup Recipe

Chicken Noodle Soup Recipe

Ingredients

  • 4 tablespoons olive oil, divided
  • 1 stick garlic and herb butter
  • 1-pound boneless skinless chicken thighs or breast (2½ cups rotisserie chicken when in a hurry) 
  • Creole seasoning, salt, and white pepper
  • 1 1/2 cups carrots sliced 
  • 1 1/2 cups celery sliced 
  • 1 onion diced
  • 4-6 cloves garlic, minced
  • 1/3 cup all-purpose flour
  • 8 cups chicken broth
  • 2 tablespoons granulated chicken bouillon or bouillon cubes 
  • 1 tablespoon dried parsley or 3 TBS fresh
  • 1 teaspoon dried oregano
  • 1 teaspoon dried basil
  • 1 teaspoon onion powder
  • 1 teaspoon garlic powder
  • 1 teaspoon onion soup mix
  • 1/2 teaspoon dried thyme
  • 1/2 teaspoon dried sage
  • 1/2 teaspoon ground cumin
  • 1/2 teaspoon paprika
  • Pinch red pepper flakes (optional)
  • 4 bay leaves
  • 2 cups half and half 
  • 1/2 teaspoon cornstarch 
  • 2 tablespoons cornstarch 
  • 2 cups wide egg noodles, uncooked
  • 1/3 cup freshly grated Parmesan cheese

Prep and Cooking Instructions:

Step 1

Season chicken with ½ teaspoon creole seasoning and ½ teaspoon salt & pepper. Heat 2 tablespoons of oil over medium-high heat in a large Dutch pot. Once hot, add the chicken and sear until golden, about 3 minutes per side. Remove the chicken to a plate but leave the drippings.

Step 2

Melt 1 stick of butter with 2 tablespoons of olive oil over medium heat in the drippings. Once melted, increase heat to medium-high and add onions, carrots, and celery; sauté for 4 minutes scraping up the golden bits on the bottom of the pot. 

Step 3

Add garlic and sauté. Slowly sprinkle in the flour, constantly stirring for a few minutes; don’t allow the flour to stick to the bottom of the pot. This will prevent it from burning. Don’t hesitate to add additional oil if needed.

Step 4

Return chicken to the pot, and add in the chicken broth, bay leaves bouillon, other seasonings, and ½ teaspoon salt. Cover the soup and bring to a simmer over high heat, then reduce and simmer for 10-12 minutes (until chicken is tender enough to shred). Please stir occasionally to prevent the bottom from burning.

Step 5

Once the chicken becomes tender, move it to a cutting board and shred it with a fork.

Step 6

In a small measuring cup whisk cornstarch with half and half until smooth, then stir into the soup pot. Add the noodles and bring to a boil; simmer until noodles are tender, approximately 6 minutes (don’t overcook noodles!).

Step 7

Reduce heat to low and stir in Parmesan followed by shredded chicken. Taste and season with additional salt and pepper if desired. Stir in the additional broth if desired for a less “chunky” soup. 

Lentil Soup Recipe

Lentil Soup Recipe

 

Ingredients

  • 2 tablespoons olive oil 
  • 1 medium yellow onion, diced
  • 4 medium garlic cloves, minced
  • 2 medium carrots, peeled and diced
  • 2 medium celery stalks, diced
  • 1 cup brown or green lentils, dry
  • 2 ½ cups vegetable broth, unsalted
  • 1 can (28oz) diced tomatoes
  • 2 handfuls baby spinach, chopped
  • Juice of half a lemon
  • 2 teaspoons cumin, ground
  • 1 teaspoon turmeric, ground
  • 1 tablespoon onion powder
  • 1 tablespoon garlic powder
  • 1 teaspoon onion soup mix
  • 1 teaspoon paprika
  • Creole, salt & pepper more or less to taste

Prep and Cooking Instructions:

Step 1

Chop all veggies and set them aside.

Step 2

Heat oil in a large saucepan over medium heat. Add the onions and garlic. Sauté for 5 minutes or until fragrant. Add the diced carrots and celery. Sauté for another 10 minutes.

Step 3

Stir in the lentils and all seasonings. Cook for 2 minutes. Add the diced tomatoes and broth. Stir together and bring to a boil over high heat.

Step 4

Reduce heat and allow to simmer, covered, for 30-35 minutes or until the lentils and vegetables are cooked and tender. Remember to stir occasionally.

Step 5

Once everything is done, stir in the spinach and lemon juice. Cook for 2-3 minutes until the spinach softens. Serve immediately.

 

 

 

 

 

 

2022 – My Year In Reflection

2022 – My Year In Reflection

 

What a year! 

2022 consisted of many mountaintop, valley, and desert experiences. I began the year feeling content and ecstatic about so many new visions. Some of them may have been a little over the top, but others were certainly manageable. I was experiencing immense joy and felt on top of the mountain. 

I won’t lie and say that every smile was authentic and every yes was pure. Social media shows the highlights and I can’t say every photo or post accurately depicted where I was in that current moment – especially because my dream team plans months in advance.  

Somewhere in the middle of the year, I was hit with unendurable pain, falling into a valley. I will be honest in saying that I was shaken. I questioned God a time or two, and I’ve had to use every imaginable strength I possess to keep standing.

However, countless unique opportunities presented themselves, and now I’m keeping my head above water with a ridiculous amount of hope!

Life is a rollercoaster ride.

You either get on the ride with great anticipation of fun or nervousness about what could possibly go wrong. But once you buckle your seatbelt there’s no certainty of what your overall experience will be. Regardless of what you’re experiencing on the ride, you’re not in control of operations, so you can’t just jump off if you become uncomfortable. You have to allow the rollercoaster to run its course. 

The same is true in life. Nothing is certain, so all you can do is buckle up and make it through whatever comes your way. You must endure the good and the bad, all while putting your faith in God and trusting that He has a plan. 

So as I reflect on 2022, I beam, I weep, and I rejoice. I remember that although many of my circumstances and people changed, God never did! Even when I felt shaken, he reminded me why unshakable is in my DNA. The one thing I will forever cling to is Him. As I wait on Him I will praise Him because I’ve seen His goodness and His faithfulness!

I urge you to reflect on your 2022. Don’t minimize or maximize what the year was filled with. Write down everything you can recall about your mountain, valley, and desert experiences. The hardships make the good moments even sweeter. Everything you’ve gone through has helped you to grow. I assure you that not an ounce of it will be wasted!

Looking ahead to 2023.

I’m not sure what’s ahead in 2023. But I’m self-assured I will continue to pursue He who makes all things new and unconditionally loves me beyond measure. I will continue to give my people my best, but only after I’ve poured my cup first – affirming myself like never before. Finally, I will no longer dim my light for others to shine. There’s enough darkness in the room for us to all authentically shine!